There has been much debate and over analyses over what you should text the girl after meeting her.
Before I explain my favourite text to send after meeting her…
I want to emphasise that the set itself is 1000 times more important than the text that you send her
If she likes you enough then you can send almost anything and she’ll be eager to respond. The main focus of text game should be:
Do Not Over-Invest And Keep Your Texts Short And Concise
But I’ll go into more specifics of text game another time (If you’d like me to, leave a comment below and I’ll consider it).
Today I just wanted to share with you my favourite first text to send her after meeting her.
Are you ready?
“Are you still distracting innocent men ;)”
What this text does is flip the script and put you in the position of power.
Let me explain…
The act of day game is an act of spontaneity and going after what you want (Chasing the girl). If you’re good at day game you can flip the script during set and get the power back so that you’re the one being chased rather than the “chasee” (I’m well aware that’s not a real word).
This is done through day game techniques, like fractional eye contact, qualification, teasing, challenging and other techniques that I teach.
When you send this text it also has the effect of making her feel like she is the one chasing you.
You were the one who approached her… You were the one trying to get her number and eventually fuck her… Except now your first text has implied SHE was the one at fault… She was deliberately distracting you and stopping you from going out about your day…
NOW you’ve put her in a position of having to explain herself and justify her actions which in turns gives you the power.
As an easy way to remember – The one being pursued always has the power
The other reason this text works so well is due to using the term “Innocent men”.
This opens the conversation into multiple juicy and exciting ways.
Saying innocent is implying to her that you’re claiming to be an innocent man, and if you’re an attractive man who practices daygame, that’s probably NOT the vibe you’re giving off. In fact ever since I’ve become an advanced daygamer I don’t think I’ve ever had a girl call me innocent or anything of a similar nature.
By texting her this, it gives her the chance to explain why you’re NOT innocent (E.G.) She might reply with:
“I don’t think you seem like an innocent man”
“You’re not innocent, talking and trying to seduce girls on the street!”
This is a great response on your side, it means she’s consciously admitting that you’re a sexual man, and a bad boy.
This Will Allow Her To Open Up Her Imagination About Doing Sexual Things With You…
… That she can’t do with ‘good boys’ or ‘innocent boys’…
On top of that, the text is short, concise, and not needy or *try hard* response seeking (Asking a question…).
It also sticks to the law of least investment – Her response text will usually be longer than yours, either with a text trying to justify herself for distracting you (Win) or explaining why you’re not innocent (Win) Win-Win.
I’ll usually reply to her follow up text further emphasising I am innocent but in a blatant sarcastic way that she knows I’m joking
“I am innocent ask my mum! I go to church every Sunday!”
Or if she justifies her actions, I’ll respond with something like:
“Well okay, I’ll let you off the hook this time, only because you’re quite a pretty girl, what’s your plans this week?”
(Approval, direct intent and date logistic organizing, all happens THIS QUICKLY)
But hey, that’s a bonus, this article was meant to only explain my opening text (I take too much care of you bastards).
Hope this helped!
Stay horny friends 😉
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