(08th June, 2017 Email)
I’ll grant everyone this:
Sadly however, I find this is the extent of ‘risk’ many new Daygamers take.
Yeppers, a direct Daygame opener is the way to go.
Noooo, you cannot just ‘castrate’ yourself right after your opening line though.
You’ve just taken this fine ass looking biatch that you successfully picked up during your Daygame out to dinner. A ridiculously fancy restaurant of some kind. Let’s say French. The restaurant, not the girl. (Though if the girl also is – well done). You two sit down to start your lovely evening. Your entree soon comes. (‘Appetiser’ for you North American weirdos.) It’s amazing, beautifully presented, high-end fancy food. Decorated to the hills, juuust enough sauce to satiate the taste-buds yet leave you longing for your main meal.
You and the hot (possibly French) chick sitting next to you spot the waiter walking towards your table with 2 plates in his hand.
If you’re anything like me and my relationship to food, “the excitement mounts” is actually a metaphor for the little chubby pocket rocket that you start to pitch when you’re nearby GREAT food.
(Hot French girls help as well though)
The moment has arrived.
The smell is overwhelming
Your imagination has run away with you.
The first ‘appetiser’ has set your expectations waaaaaaaay to high.
You come crashing back down to earth as some overcooked steak, soggy chips and watery mashed-potato stare back at you from the plate.
You’d be disappointed to the extreme, no?
Well have I got a shock for you…
Your wonderfully sexual, direct, exciting Daygame opener was the scrumptious entree (appetiser, whatever). You had turned on all of the girls 5 different senses… Only to continue on as this bland, disgusting, waste of time ‘main meal’.
Where did the excitement go?
Why are you talking about your cat?
Why do you care where she got her damn coffee from?
Bring back the sexual vibe dude.
Stay direct, overt, interesting, fresh, and different from all the rest.
Don’t resort back to comfortable boring chit chat for the rest of the Daygame approach.
Look, here’s the thing.
That’s just the beginning. Any chance you get, you should be teasing her. Alluding to sexual innuendoes. Keeping that sparkle in your eye that burned such attraction into the poor girl’s hindbrain from the very beginning of the Daygame approach.
I’ve had girls L.O.L.ing and R.O.F.L.ing all over the sidewalk when they’ve told me that they’re not ‘sporty’ and are ‘no good at ball sports’… only for me to reply “boy, your past boyfriends must have been bitterly disappointed in the bedroom”.
It’s hard to put a number on the ‘correct amount’ of direct statement/comments you should make in a Daygame approach.
More so, it should come naturally to you over time.
Just be sure to actively work them into your Daygame sets. Over time, it will feel normal and less ‘abrasive’.
Plus your Daygame sets will stick much more.
Check out my direct statements throughout this Daygame infield approach:
See you tomorrow,