(06th June, 2017 Email)
If you guys are anything like me, it’s all fun and games to hear what works during Daygame… but so many times in the past, learning what DOESN’T work has been as beneficial, if not more so, than hearing about successes.
So I figured I’d cast my ego aside for a second.
(Yep, a Castaway reference for today’s Daygame email)
And trod over past ground. I’m thinking back over my thousands of Daygame approaches, more specifically, the very early ones. And I’ve come up with a quick list of ‘stupid mistakes’ that I used to make. Once you remove them from YOUR Daygame, you will instantly shoot up your results.
Never mind, let’s begin.
First of all, the actual approach itself.
If it’s a front stop, give yourself enough damn room so the poor girl has enough stopping distance.
You don’t want her running into you.
Or worse, starting to walk to your side as you start on your opener.
This set’s you up for a power-battle straight away. Once she’s on the side, it’s difficult to recover yourself into a ‘directly in front of her’ position.
Get this part right, give yourself enough distance so she can stop DIRECTLY in front of you.
Don’t disadvantage yourself right from the get-go of your Daygame interaction.
Ok, coolio, we’ve got the most common Daygame stop down pat!
Next up, the boring interview.
Especially prevalent in beginner Daygame sets. It is all too common to fall back on ‘interview questions’ throughout your Daygame interactions. I understand. I’ve been there. I’ve burned Daygame sets with beautiful girls from this common mistake.
You have GOT to learn how to ask questions subtly.
It shouldn’t even SOUND like a question.
The point is getting information out of the girl so you can expound on it and create a topic of conversation that she relates to and can attach comfort and rapport to.
Instead of ‘what country are you from’, you will now STATE ‘You look like an xyz chick, because this sexy style of your reminds me of…’
There, you’ve given her another direct compliment – calling her style ‘sexy’ and guessed her nationality.
Doesn’t matter if you’re correct or not, she will enlighten you afterwards.
Same goes for her job. Or her field of study. Or her hobbies.
– “I thought to myself that you’d be an international spy, here to steal our Sydney Opera house and take it back to your country…”
– “Yeah you remind me of a scientist or engineer, because you look like a sexy but closet nerdy kind of girl…’
– “You are definitely a surfer chick. I can just see in your pretty eyes that you like to go and pretend to drown, so the lifeguards have to save you and give you mouth-to-mouth resuscitation.”
These are a few Daygame teases and assumptions I’ve made many times in the past with hot girls.
They work like ghost-busters.
But don’t be a criminal though, come up with your own ones.
Let’s wrap today’s daily Daygame Australia email up with a tip about killer instinct.
More specifically, not having the steel testicles between your legs to ask EVERY girl that you Daygame for her number.
I get it
‘It’s not worth it dude, she was never going to respond anyways.’
I have had endless shitty sets that I knew were going nowhere.
I’ve wasted plenty of phone credit or WhatsApp internet data on messages that never get a response.
Wanna know a secret?
Getting a reply isn’t the point.
Becoming comfortable taking a girl’s number is the main objective here.
I didn’t push through with my killer instinct enough in my formative Daygame approaching days. Therefore, once I started becoming decent at this whole Daygame thing, I was still too nervous about taking the numbers from girls who genuinely wanted me to do it!
In hindsight it was silly.
But hey, that’s why I’m here teaching you guys.
Even if the girl doesn’t seem at all interested, request her number.
Here’s the thing:
60% of the time, she’ll POLITELY say no. (I’m yet to have a girl scream “GET LOST LOSER” and slap me across the face, sadly.)
40% of the time, she’ll give you her number just to get rid of you.
In both cases, you’re a winner.
‘Cause, young one, you’ve just entered into an ‘uncommon’ or ‘uncomfortable’ situation another time. You’ve created another reference point of experience for yourself. Next time you ask a girl for her number, you’ll be 0.55% more confident about it.
Eventually, you’re going to be a smooth, suave muthafucker who Daygames a pretty girl and takes her number for fun.
No awkwardness necessary.
Those 3 tips are gonna skyrocket your Daygame results with hot chicky-babes, guaranteed.
If you thought THIS was impressive, wait until you see the 7 OTHER BRAND SPANKIN’ IMPRESSIVE tips I’ve got waiting for you over here:
See you tomorrow,