(18th August, 2017 Email)
In this installment of Daygame Australia’s email tips, I promised to teach you guys how to be the ‘casual lover’.
Whether the girl has a boyfriend or not, she’s a horny, HORNY animal
… And it is extremely possible to sleep with her without any commitment on your behalf.
They can Daygame approach girls quite easily now. There might still be some anxiety, but they can do it. They even show off to their friends occasionally so they can soak in all the ‘wow – you’re amazeballs’ praise and adulations.
While they can Daygame approach, the actual end result of sex is still scarce
Scarcity is one of the biggest killers of otherwise great men
If you can’t say with confidence, “I will go out and approach girls all week. And by this time next Monday, I will have been with at least one new girl”, then you’ve living on a tightrope
That tightrope being the attraction of an easier, sex-filled lifestyle
Albeit with only that ‘ok’ looking girl who you met through your Daygame adventures and finally slept with.
And now, I, Zaccy boy, will open up the doors to the casual sex kingdom
The light that shines through is a plethora of techniques and frames I implement in my dating life that scream, “We’re only bonking private parts casually – don’t expect a relationship with me”.
First and foremost is the texting:
We want minimal texting.
Boytoystory had a great ’10 message rule’ which required you to at least request a date within the first 10 messages. Both yours and hers.
I like the method. In fact, I’ve taken it to the extreme and have meticulously tested setting up a date with my first message. I’m not going to recommend either method. Just the actual guideline of not taking very long to request a first date.
Texting is for suckers anyways.
Know who texts her a lot?
None of them are her part-time orgasm providers
(Well, maybe one or two of her girlfriends, but we’ll hopefully film that in later months…)
Next up is the first date:
Casual means nothing fancy.
This is actually a small part of all the “Pick-Up Goo-roo” nonsense that they got pretty correct.
No restaurants. No movies. Nothing fancy that means you’ve got to work overtime next week to afford this night out.
A bottle of wine and sitting in a park somewhere. Preferably close to your bedroom in case she’s making her horniness obvious and you’ve GOT to get her into a bedroom as soon as possible.
Less is more
She’s come on the date because your original Daygame approach left her curious and attracted. Attracted to the mysterious aura that surrounded you.
Don’t reveal too much. (I’ve made this mistake before.) Don’t do much of the talking. A girl’s favorite subject is herself. If she asks you a question, don’t be a weirdo. Answer it bluntly OR spike up the conversation with total unbelievable bullshit that makes her laugh. Deflect the question back onto her and get her fulfilling the magic 90:10 ratio of her doing most of the word-vomiting. (Sexy metaphor there.)
Outright state what you need her to believe:
A friend taught me this line,
“I’d make for a terrible boyfriend because I’m always leaving the city on little holiday trips.”
Easier to be believable somewhere in Europe. But still plausible here in Australia. Basically you’ve pre-framed your excuse to fall ‘off the map’ and cut complete contact with her for weeks at a time, in order to cement the whole *casual* frame of the relationship.
Without bragging, talk about other girls you’ve casually dated.
I dated a smoking hot Brazilian girl last week.
During the conversation, I told her that this park bench was my go to ‘date location’. And how I’d been making out with a Peruvian girl right here the night before. Not to mention the other Brazilian girl, also from Sao Paulo, who I’d been with 2 weeks ago.
Easy Peasy, casual sexy
(Let’s pretend that rhymes perfectly, ok?)
Don’t see them often.
Remember that actions speak louder than words.
Sub-communication makes up more than 70% of our entire ‘conversation’.
You can scream from the rooftops, “we’re only casual lovers” all you want…
But if you’re meeting her once or twice a week, going to barbecues with her friends, and taking her for romantic walks on the beach… well, you’re ruining the casual frame with your actions.
You must sleep with the girl as soon as fate allows
After that, don’t see her more than once every 2 weeks.
That’s sex twice a month
For the first month or two at least.
Leave her wanting more, and wondering where the hell you are and who you’re seeing for the other 13 days.
After a while you can make it once every week or so.
Nothing more than that
Here’s a Daygame approach infield of mine that resulted in a lovely casual sexy times situation:
See you tomorrow,