(01st June, 2017 Email)
I’m sure all you cool dudes have been there before:
A great time is had by all.
BUTT (Smack that, all on the floor, smack that, give me some more…)
Sorry, my mind left this email for a second
Pain. In. The. ASS.
First, reframe it as a compliment to your skillz.
Your Daygame was so tight that for those split few minutes you made her forget all about her boyfriend. She also felt sexually desired as a woman and you brightened up her whole day.
However – what if I told you the game wasn’t over just yet.
Uno: She’s a devout Christian non-cheater girl. (Doesn’t have to be Christian). There’s no way she could possibly cheat. Even if their relationship is rocky and on its last legs, she still won’t entertain the thought of actually cheating. That’s WRONG.
Dos: This type of girl holds little respect towards the sanctity of relationships. Going to the club each weekend and having drunk make outs on the dancefloor isn’t *technically* cheating in her eyes. If your Daygame was on point, you might have to push once or twice for her to fork over her phone number. But once she does, it’s on like donkey-kong.
Tres: The crappy ‘attached maybe’ girls. Consider her to be a normal Daygame ‘Maybe Girl’ on steroids. If you thought it took tight game to close normal maybe girls then this type of maybe girl will probably do your head in.
For the longest time I had no interest in chasing a girl who had a boyfriend.
I figured there were enough single girls prancing around the city at any one time that expending energy on an already taken girl really wasn’t worth my effort.
Though slowly my frame has been changing.
I start to figure, “well, if the girl is hell bent on cheating anyways, it may as well be my pee-pee stick that’s getting wet.”
(Yep, that’s exactly how my brain formu-ma-lates sentences when I think.)
And thus I made a new promise to myself that I would push through to the very end. Hell be damned any excess energy wasted on these girls. It’s a new experience at the very worst.
Wanna know a secret?
There’s a shit ton of girls out there that fall into “Category Dos” – the more than happy to cheat girls.
Honestly, it makes sense as well.
When you’re predominantly Daygaming chicks in that 18-26 years range, you are inevitably meeting a lot of emotionally immature chicks. The ones with no real priorities in life yet.
They’re still in their party years. They still feel like the queen’s shit whenever they enter a room.
Why should they be tied down during their ‘fun years’ is a fantastic justification they come up with.
Ok, now the logistics of pushing through.
When I hear the dreaded “ohhhhhh I’m so sorry, I have a boyfriend” line, I’m ready to go with:
“That’s fine, I’m not looking to be your boyfriend.”
Then I plow on as though she never said anything.
I’ll try to close again soon.
If the rejection comes up again, I’ll chuck in some psychological black-magic framing, mind-bending tricks of mine:
“Let me ask you something (girl’s name), do you see yourself marrying this dude in the future”.
Now, most girls get a sudden shock to the system and throw out a resounding “no” to this question. Fair enough as well, when you’re 20, you’re hardly thinking about those kind of commitments.
More importantly, we’ve got her questioning herself now.
After that, I go for one more solid, direct push.
Without an option, I TELL the girl that I’m going to take her number and send her a message. If she’s interested in meeting up for a ‘casual cup of coffee’ (Important metaphor – use those exact words) then she can reply. If not, it was lovely getting to know her anyways.
What can I say?
I’m still new to this chasing an attached girl thingy.
But the above is working like gang-busters thus far.
So my friends, don’t feel discouraged when you hear that fateful line about a boyfriend.
Sum up the situation and if you feel she’s genuinely attracted to you, push further and further.
You never know what might happen.
Now, go and get yourself some inspiration, listen to his Daygame infield approach of mine:
See you next week,