(20th June, 2017 Email)
I don’t know about you guys, but I abso-dabso-dutely LOVE a good stand-up comedy.
Easy to sit back, relax and enjoy.
Personally, there are a few that I *enjoy* more than others. Basically the dudes who are telling real life stories. The ones that are no-holds-barred, brutal and are not afraid of extremely “offensive” or “yanking the petals off of all the delicate flowers who love to be offended and play the victim” type comedians.
Think Jimmy Jefferies, Doug Stanhope and the infamous Bill Burr.
Anyways, sadly (not sadly, it’s kind of epic) I’m becoming addicted to their damn podcasts.
I mean I’m a visual, active person. Always have to be doing something. So podcasts are like my kryptonite. Yet, some of these podcasts segments are such quality that even I can’t help myself.
Anyhow, onto the Daygame lesson.
Bill Burr’s podcast includes segments where he answers questions that fans write into his show with.
He got a question from a young college dude. The dude complained that while he was smart and pretty gym fit, he had absolutely negative 100% confidence with the ladies.
Whatever should he do, was the quiz he put towards Bill.
Here’s the thing
You and I are lucky.
We have the foresight to search out solutions to our problems.
Once upon a time I couldn’t get my dick wet if I was the last man in the world and I was roaming the red light district of Amsterdam.
However, through grueling research and even tougher ‘in the trenches’ experience, life and sex is absolutely golden from here on in. And it’s like riding a bicycle, I’m not suddenly going to wake up and forget “how to get laid anymore”.
Why are we lucky? When you search long enough, you come across some absolutely legitimate sources of information.
Information that just makes sense. And the more success you personally have, the more you understand all the information that you read… because it is exactly in line with your new-found personal experiences with real-world women.
But he’s an older dude.
And he’s a celebrity within his niche. When he performs in a club that’s advertising him, he’s the top dog.
As such, even that ugly Irish fucker has gotten laid more times than artificial turf in the Green Bay Packers stadium. (Random NFL reference today – woooo)
So he’s gonna have a basic jist of decent advice with women.
And so it proved
He told the dude that the most important thing you can do is be yourself and truly have fun.
And so the gospels are true
That was his basic message to the dude. Start doing things not for women, but for yourself. Go and pursue hobbies that you’re genuinely interested in. Joining societies/clubs that you’ve secretly wanted to all your life.
That’s the quickest way to create self-satisfaction, happiness and in turn create and attractive aura about yourself that women cannot resist.
Long gone are the days where I roll into a Daygame approach with the framework of an entire conversation laid out in my head before I’ve said my first word.
Sure, there’s a few spikes and teases I have ready to go if the situation calls for it. If the girl is Colombian, or Italian, or French, or Brazilian, or Russian, I have a few fun stereotypes I’m going to tease the living daylights out of the poor girl with.
But nowadays, I’m focusing on me. I want to have FUN with the women. I want to be able to leave the interaction at the end and say “that was super-duper fun, I genuinely want to hang out with that girl again”.
And I want her to be thinking the exact same thing.
Because it brings positivity to both of our lives.
We are mutually bettering each other’s world-experience.
The secret is bringing VALUE to the other person’s life. Not trying to suck value out of them.
So let this email guide your next few sessions of Daygame. Go out with the expressed intention of having fun and bringing value into the girl’s life. What chick can say no to a date after you do that?
Certainly not his beautiful, blonde Norwegian chick I Daygamed and recorded here for your enjoyment and learning:
See you tomorrow,