(05th May, 2017 Email)
Yesterday’s email covered a very important topic for you to consider when looking for ways to improve your Daygame.
But did you know there are also secret forces at work, “force-fields”, if you will, that are also preventing your progress?
And they are dastardly little thing.
They aren’t visible
But they are surrounding your mind and body at all times.
Fear not young Daygamer, for I “Yours Woolly” am here to enlighten you.
Yesterday we talked about how comfort is the main killer of your progress in Daygame.
Once you have a ‘proven’ system that gets you laid every time there is a full moon, you tend to stick with it.
We determined that this comfort forces your conversations to sound bland. Not to mention identical to the last Daygame conversation you had.
The texting is identical.
Your date venues stop changing.
Even your escalation comes in the exact same form, each and every time.
Let me remind you of a solid definition of “insanity”:
“Doing the same shit over and over again, expecting different fucking results.” [Paraphrasing the Oxford dictionary…]
The point of yesterday’s email was in hope of having you realise that you should constantly change your tactics. Test what works, what doesn’t. Optimize what does work, and look to make it even more effective.
While you experiment with your Daygame, jump as far as you can out of your comfort zones.
Yep. Make like a fucking frog, and leap as far as you can. Sink or swim.
Let me explain through a story of me breaking out of my comfort zones JUST YESTERDAY.
I approached a redhead Canadian chick named Jasmine.
A dreamy girl who was walking ever so slowly through a park here in Sydney.
My first observation stack hooked perfectly. I told her she reminded me of all the stoned girls who walked around Vancouver in the summer time.
She was taken aback as she explained that she hailed from Calgary, Canada.
Crazy luck, right?
The rest of the approach went off without a hitch. Teasing, spiking, attraction, rapport, comfort and plenty of kino. (Fast kino being my specialty).
After 10-15 minutes of fun, I tested logistics. She seemed DTF and was a definite Same Day lay candidate.
Sadly, she told me that she was on her way to Melbourne and had to catch a bus in 30 minutes.
The place she catches the bus from was a 20 minute walk, and she had to get her bags from the hostel on the way.
I offered to walk with her part of the way, since it was on my way home.
At my door, I did what any reasonable Daygamer worth his socks would do: I offered her a ‘quick coffee’ inside.
She hesitated, biting her lip. Finally she said “There’s just not enough time, though I really want to”.
Of course, I reworded the offer two more times. Persistence is key, as you know.
Alas, no bingo.
Yes, a Same Day Lay in just 30 minutes would have been far-and-away a new record for me. I’ve had Same Day Lays before, but the quickest one I have ever pulled had taken 1 hour and a half. However, I have never kissed a girl within the first 15 to 20 minutes of meeting her, in Daygame. Personally, I don’t see the point of “kiss closes”. Sure, they may look good on infield cameras. But they sabotage your chances of getting a meet-up on another day. The girl will leave and backwards-rationalises how ‘crazy’ your first encounter was. When you have pumped her ‘buying temperature’ like that, you need to close her on the same day.
This was different though.
This chick was leaving the city in 20 minutes, and would not be returning.
So fuck it, I’d at least go for my quickest make-out session ever. Obliteration one of the invisible force-fields around my mind that whisper to me “no, it’s impossible, you can’t kiss a girl so quickly during the daytime”.
I walked with her for 5 minutes, to show her the path back to her hostel.
Then I pulled her in and told her how pretty she was, and how disappointed I was that we didn’t have more time to ‘get to know each other’.
She concurred, then we made out for a minute right there in the street.
Not 20 minutes after having first met her…
Another limiting belief of mine shattered.
Find a way to jump out of your comfort zone as far as you can, with each approach, and soon nothing will faze you anymore.
Escalation will feel more comfortable.
Leading will feel more comfortable.
Seducing at a rapid pace will feel more comfortable.
Have a read here, and learn a few of the rapid-escalation principles I used to get this girl ready for a make-out session (and ALMOST a same day lay) after just 20 minutes of meeting each other:
See you next week,