(25th August, 2017 Email)
Today’s Daygame Australia email is a controversial one
Don’t ask me why, I’m totally correct. Yet I still find myself arguing endlessly with ‘playaz’ who disagree.
Hell, most average guys will accidentally stumble their way into occasional sex with drunk chicks from clubs and college parties throughout their early adult lives
Plus there’s chubby chickz looking for athletic dickz on craigslist
Even the slightly more experienced Daygamers know that you can have sex with girls whom you’ve met on the very same day
Everyone wants sex
You just need to know how to get it
That last sentence, ‘You just need to know how to get it’ is where the debate usually kicks off.
Most guys get into Daygame after discovering this ‘secret society’ (lol more marketing b.s.) after googling around “how to pick up chicks” or something similar. 99% of the time, it’s guys who “Don’t know how to get laid”. That’s why it is impossible for them to fathom the correctness of my argument. Even though they might ‘know how to get laid’ now, the brittle ego of their past virginness won’t let them see the light
And that’s ok
I was like that… for a long time as well
Thing is, I philosophize a lot. I apply critical thinking to my life.
Here’s the argument:
No, Daygame isn’t an easy way to get sex. On the other hand, it’s a fantastic way to get sex with the women of your choosing. Albeit rarely at first. As you get better, you have more consistent sex with girls who genuinely turn you on.
That’s the disclaimer
Craigslist, drunk hookups, online dating apps, whatever, your choice isn’t always varied.
They are blindly falling on top of whatever pussy will let them
Hump and dump is easy. Especially because most of the girls don’t want to see you again.
Why do you think the fancy smancy pick-up products, dvds, books and coaching make so much money? It’s a quick fix. They can teach you 100 lines designed to attract women. They can make you sexually desirable to women. In the short term.
You’re basically paying for an attractive short-term personality
But what about the morning after? Or the next date? When all the material and lines are exhausted?
Suddenly you have to think for yourself.
Suddenly you’re being ‘you’. Not ‘Mr. mysterious attractive stranger’. Now that lame personality that had to google ‘how to pick up chicks’ in the first place, exposes itself to the poor girl.
Is it any wonder she doesn’t want to see you again?
… But ultimately you played yourself by merely imitating an attractive man. Rather than becoming one permanently…
The true test of game and success is being able to keep the genuinely attractive women around for longer than a night.
It doesn’t have to be a relationship. But friends with benefits, casual fuck buddy, whatever floats your boat.
The only way you can do this is by being a truly interesting dude who has a life. We accept no shallowness at this level of the game. If you’re faking the funk, it’s discovered quickly. Then like a fart in the night, the girls disappear from your life as quickly as they entered.
Before I ask, let me paint a scenario…
Hot chick who has her life together. She’s got herself a law degree. She works at a firm and is on her way to making partner. One perk of her work is being well travelled, she’s seen a good portion of the world.
Interesting people are a mainstay in her life. She meets other rich lawyers. She attends formal parties and meets politicians. Top-dog CEOs in other industries become her clients when they need legal expertise. Dudes with mansions and boats are constantly texting her for a date.
Then there’s you…
Kevin… (Or whatever your name is)
You’ve just finished your latest dvd that talks about making the perfect approach
Not only that, you’ve read not 1, not 2, but 3 different books that teach you how to set up the ‘perfect date’. A perfect date that will flood a girl’s panties and make her subconsciously beg you to take her back to your bedroom’.
What chance do you really have?
Now, let’s take a step back:
Even though this gorgeous lawyer has her life sorted, she’s human like anyone else.
She has a stressful job for 49 weeks of the year
And on one of her short holidays, her friends force this chick to go clubbing with them.
She lets loose and gets loose…
So he tries it out. And it works. The girl is so drunk that she lets him touch her up.
Kevin does the right thing, he escalates and handles logistics.
Suddenly he’s banging this lawyer chick back in his bedroom while the 3 other roommates and 5 cockroaches hiding in the cupboard are trying to sleep.
Good on Kevin. Hi 5. Much love. Now he doesn’t have to use that 90-day no-risk guarantee and return all the dvds after all.
But poor Kevin isn’t ever going to see this high quality chick ever again
In fact, the next morning while enduring pillow talk, the gorgeous lawyer begins to dry-heave as Kevin starts to ‘neg’ her. She’s had more than enough and starts collecting her handbag and lace panties to storm out of there, as Kevin starts ‘DHVing’ about his 315lb deadlift in the gym.
Kevin was in the right place at the right time.
He didn’t need to read any of those books. He just needed to look ok and be on the dancefloor at the same time this sexy lawyer chick was.
The girl goes back to occasionally dating rich dudes that at least buy her expensive gifts occasionally…
All the while wishing to meet a guy who’s got his life together.
More on this next week…
Until then, check out this article on physical escalation in Daygame:
See you next week,