(04th July, 2017 Email)
I have a problem with some of the crap top Daygame coaches try and teach all you guys.
And today I’m going to address it.
This goes out to a few well known coaches in particular whose names are being withheld. (Though you’d be able to guess one or two of them by the end of this Daygame email)
In particular, the methods they preach, teach and brainwash with
Even more specifically – the lack of difference between them.
Let me clear up what I’m trying to espouse with an example.
(And in no way am I singling out this dude in particular, it’s just an example)
It seems as though he has mass approached almost every damn Brazilian chick in the city. To the point where they have all banded together and made a private facebook group dedicated solely to the topic of Paul Plow approaching them. From what I’ve seen, there’s over 500 comments and discussions about him and his past approaches with these Brazilians.
I see this as silly and frugal.
I’d like to restate that I’m not singling out Paul Plow here. It’s just a recent example.
Early on you must approach.
You must approach a lot. A metric shit-tonne is the scientific term I believe.
This goes on for a year or two into your Daygame career as you start to build reference points of experience. You start getting numbers while making ballsier and ballsier approaches. Start getting instant dates, future dates and eventually sex.
The mass approaching helps to slowly streamline this Daygame process. Streamline it to a point where a Daygamer can be placed in a foreign city with no leads, yet be dating and shagging new girls within a week. (Or less).
Here’s the thing though
Many coaches forget to tell the advanced or super-advanced Daygamer to ease off the turbo boosters
When you start becoming deadly effective with your Daygame, you need to slow it down.
They shouldn’t be pissing off entire sub-communities of girls. They shouldn’t be drawing such mass attention to themselves.
If you’re still approaching en-mass then there is something wrong with your Daygame.
A truly top-of-the-line competitive Daygamer should be able to approach less an bang more than the average Daygamer who makes 15+ approaches each time he leaves his house.
The numbers game is golden rule when you’re new.
It basically states that after a whole heap of approaches you will finally find a ‘yes’ girl who likes you despite most of your repulsive ‘beginner game’ and will sleep with you despite it.
They are there for confidence.
The true test of a Daygamer is incorporating 4 or 5 approaches into your normal routine. Be it at the supermarket, the bus stop, on your lunch break. Yet still converting enough of these damsels into a consistent sex life.
Goo-roos forget to wean their students off of the ‘mass approach strategy’.
They continue it for years upon years and start wondering why every girl is giving them the stink-eye as they wonder through the city.
The only exception that I’ve seen to this rule is Paul Janka. The New York playboy. Even this example is different though. His whole strategy is mass collecting numbers in a streamlined optimized time. Rarely does his initial approach go longer that 2 minutes. That’s fine. When you’re moving this quickly, you need multitudes of digits to see a return on your little time invested.
So today I implore everybody to step back and truly examine where you are at with your Daygame.
Chose where you lie on the spectrum of novice to super-advanced Daygamer and start adjusting your approach accordingly.
Here is a helpful article that will determine where you lie:
See you tomorrow,