(10th August, 2017 Email)
The general feeling from a few messages I received yesterday was that I didn’t completely cover my argument against instant dates
Let’s dig deeper.
Daygame works so unbelievably well in large part due to curiosity. Curiosity naturally created because being Daygame approached sober in daylight has seldom, if ever, happened to the damsels in distress who strut through your city by day.
That’s why all the online goo-roos try and sell you products with cow-patty soundbites like; “The secret seduction formulas that 99% of *average guys* don’t know – and never will”. “You will instantly skyrocket your success into the top 0.1% of guys by learning Daygame – because almost NO ONE else has the balls to even try it.”
I really shouldn’t be telling you guys this…
I should be writing it on my homepage and selling crappy products.
Well you win some, you lose some.
As identified yesterday, that’s enough time to tease the hell out of a pretty woman. As well as sexualize the Daygame approach with your physical, verbal and sub communications. But also inject some grounding rapport based conversation that stealth-force the girl to feel comfortable around you.
All the while, not quite long enough for the girl to become a ‘beta nice guy’ and start shoving her long list of ‘interview questions’ down your throat
(Besides, it should be YOU shoving things down HER throat)
So effectively she leaves the Daygame approach feeling wet, excited, yet strangely comfortable having spontaneously experienced her Disney movie moment with a mysterious stranger that she NEEDS to know more about
What better way to subconsciously DEMAND a reply to your follow up text messages?
That’s the secret sauce to so called ‘text game’
Or more accurately, how you don’t *need* any ‘text game’ if your initial Daygame approach is strong
(More on that some time into the future)
So together we have now finally come to understand how important that curiosity factor is during the initial Daygame approach. (This is thousands of years of human psychology helping you seduce these women – and that’s not even a marketing line in this instance)
I’m glad you asked
Plus, I made you read the term ‘gobbeldy goop’.
Jajajaja (as a pretty South American woman would laugh)
All in all, what is an instant date?
An instant date is taking this chicky babe you’ve Daygame approached on the street for an immediate date right then and there. Be it a coffee shop, for a walk in the park, or even to a bar.
In theory, a good thing.
In practice, less so.
If your or the girl’s logistics don’t allow you to take her back to your place later that afternoon, you’re shooting yourself in the foot.
What’s going to happen on this instant date?
You’re going to spend more and more time with the girl. Where you’re going to naturally start answering the old interview questions as you become more and more familiar with each other. With ANY luck at all, you can sustain some of the sexual undertone that you had established during the initial Daygame approach
There’s a problem though
How sexual can you REALLY make it?
If you start physically escalating as though you were on a date with the intention to take the girl home soon afterwards, you’re going to turn her on a lot. Yet, all that sexual energy and excitement inside her is going to soon dissipate when the instant date come to an end.
Then you’re going to experience a girl who later goes home and thinks how damn crazy her day has just been
How she met a random stranger, and by the end of the encounter things had turned sexual really quickly…
… This isn’t something that happens to innocent girls like herself in ‘polite society’…
Oh god, now she’s rationalizing how she shouldn’t meet up with you again
If things got THAT sexual after just meeting on the street, any future requests to meet up will surely have an expectation of sex
The whole reason they meet up for drinks is to stroke the fire-pit of curiosity in her stomach as she wonders if this is a sign of sexual interest from you. You’ve left her guessing. Wondering whether the skimpy lace lingerie she’s decided to wear to the date will be torn off of here later in the evening.
But sadly this mystery is lacking after that extended instant date
There’s no excitement of guessing on her behalf.
Suddenly that text you send in a few day’s time is basically a request for sex
Rather than a request to meet up and satiate the curiosity floating around in her head.
Why you only use an instant date and a preface to taking her home for a same day lay. All this comes after you’ve tested her logistics during the initial Daygame approach and they are in your favor.
Heed the advice
Here’s 7 more ultra-cool Daygame tips for you to consider:
See you tomorrow,