(09th June, 2017 Email)
Humour me for a quick second.
It was a hard time for ‘yours wooly’.
Hard because I was FINALLY stepping up and facing my fears.
I was jumping well outside of my comfort zone.
This was my first real entrance exam into the field of self-development.
And I failed miserably… kind of.
I’m not saying it’s the only way to approach. If the front stop isn’t available in a certain Daygame situation you find yourself in, you’re not allowed to use that as an excuse not to approach.
Any approach is better than no approach.
That was my subconscious motto during my very early Daygame approaching days.
I didn’t quite has the steel and brass balls hanging around in my thermal underwear to just jump in front of a girl like that.
All I could muster at the time was tapping a girl on the shoulder as I walked next to her.
You know what?
It wasn’t terrible.
It’s just not ideal.
You’re both still walking and you never know when the girl was planning to turn into a shop, or down another street. So it stands to reason that the approach could be terminated at any moment.
Then it finally happened.
I ballzed up bro!
I said, “Zac, stop being a pussy… make that first front stop!”
And I did…
After about 3 days…
Girl’s body looked good. Plenty of space in front of her. Nobody around for miles. (I’d followed her for like 3 blocks until nobody would be around to see – how creepy is that?) I’d mentally psyched myself up as well.
BAM. I ran around the chicka babe and made my first front stop.
Then the smile ran off my face…
Her body had tricked me.
I had not seen her face before the approach.
Here’s the thing:
All girls, especially in icy cold cities like Toronto, know how to dress. It’s no miracle for them to throw on a few strategic layers of clothing and suddenly have beautiful curves in all the right places. They can wear tight clothing and put their juicy asses on show for everyone. They can stuff their bras to amplify their busts as well.
And I’d fallen for it like a sucker.
I’d only peeped her from behind. Her ass had mesmerised me and I approached purely off of this.
It was a mistake.
She was mid 40’s and reminded me of my mother.
I told her I really liked her scarf, asked where she got it, and ejected myself as quickly as possible.
From that moment on, I made an informal promise to myself that I would always see the girl’s face before approaching her.
For the most part, I have lived up to this promise. Let’s say 99.9% of the time. But hey, I’m only a mere human male mortal thingy like yourself. Sometimes I’ve seen an absolutely irresistible ass. Or a body with curves in all the right places (and then some). And I just couldn’t help myself from making a Daygame approach. Wanna know something? EVERY.SINGLE.TIME. the face has repulsed me.
It’s a trick.
So heed my advice:
ALWAYS see the girl’s face before you approach her. It’s just not worth leaving it up to chance. Though it’s not that I’ve been burned A LOT of times by making this mistake… It’s that I’ve been burned EVERY time I gave into this temptation.
Don’t do it, fellow Daygame brethren.
Luckily I saw this chick’s face before I approached her. You can hear the excitement and sexual tension throughout our conversation, purely because we were both attracted to each other. A big benefit of seeing their face before the Daygame approach:
See you next week,