(31st May, 2017 Email)
How are you today my friends?
I hope the answer is ‘comfortable’ – because I’m going to bend your mind for a minute or two…
(Note: this applies to girls ANYTIME. Not just during Daygame – but hey, this email IS about Daygame.)
It’s a funny question actually.
Funny because most guys don’t have a single clue about it.
Not you and I though.
If you were to ask this question to a handful of random guys today I bet you’d get answers like:
– Being able to make a girl laugh
– Looking handsome
– Being a tall human being
– Having perfect skin
– Being a gym junkie with muscles to the moon
– Showing *confidence*
– Having the “gift of the gab”
Here’s the thing:
These answers are not wrong…
They’re just ‘not right’…
Of course being able to make a girl laugh is an attractive quality. It’s a quality I employ naturally within all my Daygame sets. Luckily joking amuses me and I like to amuse myself during Daygame. Therefore there is a LOT of laughter in my Daygame sets
Looking handsome and being tall? Well, that’s left to your genetic disposition. Some guys have it, some guys not soooo much. Thankfully it is by no means the ‘quickest way to create attraction.
How about having perfect skin? Well, this probably goes hand in hand with ‘being handsome’. Acne isn’t exactly flattering. But I’ve seen dudes with pimple scars dating fiiiiiiine women. So we can rule that one out as well.
Being a gym junkie and having muscles to the moon? Yes, there is no doubt this will help. At the very least, most girls are going to give you a bit more ‘time of day’ when you first Daygame approach.
The problem for most gym rats is that they have no substance to back up their muscles.
It is a foot in the door, but they are quickly dismissed and brushed aside.
As for ‘gift of the gab’? Pah, that’s a load of croc. First, you want the girl to be the one talking as much as possible. Second, you talking too much is over-investing. Bad.
The only time it comes in use is during the first minute or two of a Daygame approach. When you need to make conversation while the poor girl settles into this crazy ‘new situation’ she’s found herself in.
There’s 2 times it comes in handy.
The above, and when you’ve pulled the trigger and am walking the girl from bar/park back to your bedroom. You need to talk about literally anything. Spew your guts out. Just make sure there isn’t awkward silence for her to start backwards-rationalising her decision.
Now onto the problem with all of those above options:
You’re making jokes to try and get the girl laughing.
You try and groom well and get expensive haircuts to make yourself look as optimal as possible for the girl.
Taking pills, using face exfoliators, visiting doctors, all to get rid of acne that is ‘destroying your chances with girls.’
Every bicep curl you do, you’re imagining a girl running her little hands over your muscular arms and saying “Geez Zac, I’m so glad you train your arms. If you didn’t I’d would never be here sleeping with you.”
Purely standing in someone’s ‘personal space’ is enough to start releasing a spurt of hormones in her body.
It’s natural when people stand so close together. They get an interesting ‘uncomfortable’ feeling. That feeling is exciting. It’s something not commonly experience during the day.
Think of when you have to cram into a little seat on the bus or train between people. You feel uncomfortable. There’s a rush.
Well you can capitalize on this feeling of ‘uncomfortable’ by starting to physically escalate during your Daygame. Suddenly the energy in these feelings converts to sexual energy.
The pubic hairs around her vagina stand up when you have just touched her arm/shoulder/hair within just 1 minute of meeting her.
I am touching a girl in some way or another within 1 minute of Daygame approaching her.
Try it yourself next time.
The beauty is you are doing all this for yourself. I touch girls because I think they’re sexy and I want them to get used to us touching each other. I’m doing it for me predominantly.
Get out there and touch girls more often. Why wouldn’t you? You want to eventually sleep with them after all, so you may as well get them used to being touched!
I cover this touching and rapid escalation in much more detail for your convenience right here:
See you tomorrow,