(05th June, 2017 Email)
Wanna know what the ultimate attraction-killing, pussy-whipping, testical-removing mistake that almost all dudes are making with women?
Knowing this would set you apart from 99% of guys out there.
Your boy Zac’s gonna hook you up.
But first, see if you can relate to a few of these quirky situations I’ve found myself in over the last few weeks
I’m seeing this half Spanish, half Aussie chick. We’ve been for a coffee date, but her time logistics weren’t proper. I couldn’t pull the trigger and take her home that day. So we’ve been organising our second meet-up, which we’ve explicitly agreed to ‘watch a movie at my place’.
Anyways, one evening last week we were supposed to finally meet up. Sadly, she’s in the middle of some university project thing-a-ma-jig and couldn’t make it.
Instead, she suggested we go ‘do dinner’ in some suburb near-bye.
I knew this would be a backwards step, so I respectfully declined and told her “We’d find another time when we’re both free.”
Situation number 2:
I had just organised a second date with this gorgeous half Jamaican, half U.S chick.
We’d decided to go for a drink in a swanky, dimly lit lounge bar. (As luck would have it, not 5 minute’s walk from my house…)
Later that afternoon, she sent me a message saying that one of her friends had invited her to a Brazillian BBQ dinner in a suburb much further from my logistics (house). She asked if I’d prefer to go there instead. “Of fucking course” would have been my normal answer. Who doesn’t love Brazillian food? Let alone the Brazillian waitresses. But this situation wouldn’t have been ideal to my overall goal of getting this chick naked in my bedroom.
So I declined the offer and again told her that we could find another evening we’re both free to meet up if she’d like.
She said no, and we met up for the drink as originally planned.
Let’s look at a broader example, since mine above were a liiiiiitle specific:
You know how 99% of loser guys hide their intentions with women?
It’s obvious every single day.
They’re the ones who ‘hang out’ with chicks without any sexual vibe.
The common reasoning is “I’ll be friends first and when the time comes, I’ll *make my move*”.
When in reality all the dude wants to do is tear the girl’s clothes off and ravish her.
And, so do my examples above.
Let’s break them down:
In the first example, we had an arranged ‘date’ that is literally going back to my bedroom to watch a movie. Perfect. Fucking. Logistics. When it happens, I’ll make her feel comfortable, watch a bit of the movie, kiss her a bit. I’ll take it slowly and escalate throughout until the sex happens.
Alternatively, I could have *accepted* a dinner-date a whole suburb away. Nowhere near my bedroom. In a public place. Not to mention it’s difficult to escalate from across a dining table.
Shitty deal if you ask me.
A casual alcoholic beverage in a dimly lit, little lounge bar not 5 minute’s walk from my bedroom. I can sit next to the girl, tease her, and physically escalate throughout the night. Best yet, if the music is ‘too loud’, I can pull her in really close so I can “hear her better”. Reducing our bodies distance is a super effective stealth move to ramp up sexual tension.
I could have gone to a restaurant, where I would have to be nice in front of her friends. People I have never met, and have no interest in meeting. It would have been around 1 hour away from my bedroom as well.
Honestly, sounds like another crappy deal to me.
And finally, that common concession 99% of guys make in their life: Becoming her non-sexual friend with the *hope* of one day revealing their natural sexual desires.
This accumulates to a lot of life-time wasted when after 1 or 2 years, the dude can’t handle it anymore, confesses his feelings and gets the “I only see us as friends” line.
One of the most important ideas you can foster in your mind is that no deal is often better than a bad deal.
Learn to walk away. Say no. Respect yourself.
Sometimes it really should be ‘your way or the highway’.
Now read this:
See you tomorrow,