(04th May, 2017 Email)
There is a strange yet all too common phenomenon in the Daygame community…
At the start, you may consider it a Daygame success when the girl you approach stops and talks to you. Not long after that, having a 7 minute or more conversation is your definition of success.
Later though, you won’t consider anything less than a phone number a successful Daygame approach.
As your skills in attraction and rapport increase, you finally risk those steel little balls between your legs. Here is where you try and convert a Daygame approach into your first Instant-Date.
It’s all coming along swimmingly.
Not 1 month ago, you had never directly Daygame approached a girl in your life. Now you’re taking girls on coffee dates after 10 minutes in the streets with them.
Slowly but surely, the phone numbers you get from Daygame become more and more solid. The girls reply more frequently, and it’s becoming easier and easier for you to book dates on your calendar. Though you may not be converting many into sexy-times just yet.
Though even the end result of sex is starting to improve.
A joyous occasion, to say the least.
Be proud. It is more than 99.9% of guys will do in their entire lifetime.
And you earned it the hard way. Congratulations.
There is still a problem. A problem that I alluded to earlier. A problem that is quite strange, but all too common in the Daygame community.
It is around this stage that you start to get ‘comfortable’.
Your approaches start to sound more and more alike.
You’ve picked a few subjects that always get a decent reaction from the girls and are sure to use them during each Daygame approach.
This phenomenon carries over into your messages.
You’re probably using the same stock-standard opening message with all the girls.
Real original dude. NOT!
The bar staff are getting sick of seeing your face since you bring all the girls that you date to the same joint.
Now you’re working through your own ‘system’ for dates. You may be funny for a while. Then you move onto touching them a bit. After exactly 42 minutes, 15 seconds and 77 milliseconds, it is time to try and kiss her.
Now remember, you are still only getting laid very inconsistently. In fact, it’s still more by luck than anything else.
Yet, you are starting to repeat the exact same processes and steps each time with a new girl.
The exact processes that are getting you laid ‘very inconsistently’, ‘more by luck than anything else’.
You’re becoming comfortable.
You’re becoming ‘arrogant’.
Your objective definition of success.
See, before when you were a horny Youtube-binger, a ‘fun night’ consisted of a box of Kleenex and your internet browsers home page “Pornhub”.
Daygame opened your eyes. You could see the light.
Compared to your previous self, 5 new phone numbers, 3 of which reply, is a great day. 2 of those numbers coming out on a date is magical. And having sex with 1 in 30 of these girls who does come on a date, well this represents success that was once entirely unimaginable to your prior shell of an existence.
All you want to do is replicate this ‘success’. However mediocre it is, compared to what is still possible.
Suddenly you stop experimenting.
You only approach girls in a certain way. You only talk about the same few subjects. Your texts are all identical. The date locations are the same. Even your escalation is predictable.
So is it any wonder you results will never really develop past this ‘beginner success’ rate that you’re so proud of?
And it’s your own arrogant fault.
If anything, this is the stage to take confidence and experiment EVEN FURTHER.
You know you have a system that will get you laid ‘occasionally’.
Test new Daygame openers. Try new Daygame conversation topics. Experiment with different text messages. Plan a few different date venues, who knows, you may just find an even more seduction and quiet place.
Hell, even mix up your patterns on the date itself. Make it unpredictable. Do what feels right in the moment.
You’ll quickly learn what doesn’t work. Yet more importantly, you’ll soon learn what works SO MUCH BETTER than anything you currently do.
Today, I implore you to become dynamic again.
It is the static Daygamer that is doomed to mediocre results for the rest of his seduction career.
Check out my spontaneous, sensual approach here. Where I freestyle most of my way through:
See you tomorrow,