(15th June, 2017 Email)
First you’ve got to accept that this is not a universal truth.
I’m about to describe to you a general rule of thumb during Daygame.
It makes sense and I see it manifest as true, for a good deal of the time. Though it is far from the ‘be all an end all’ of any Daygame environment.
Today we discuss atmosphere.
If I am in an extremely chilled out mood, I will Daygame at the park. The park has a laid back atmosphere almost by definition. Girls are strolling through the flowers, soaking up sunlight. If they were in a rush to work, they’d be head down, ear-phones in, racing through the city streets.
Nope, they’ve chosen to walk through a damn park.
Maybe their dog has tagged along. Maybe they’re sitting down having a smoke. Hell, they could be studying on the grass for all I care.
All I know is that they are going to match my chilled out mood for 99% of the Daygame approaches that I make.
Immediately we are sharing the same mood. We are relatable. Neither of us are in a hurry to spit out conversation at 1 million miles per hour. We’re relaxed. We are on the same wavelength.
The park is my go-to spot for slow, easy conversation and flirting. Nothing flashy, no dancing-monkey bullshit.
Then there is Newtown.
Every big city around the world has a ‘Newtown’. Newtown is your hippy conglomerate. Your gay-pride location. The part of the city that lacks any kind of alpha characteristic.
If you thought it didn’t happen normally… well now you’re suddenly like Jesus resurrected with you manly directness. It’s unheard of in this part of town.
The atmosphere lends itself to prolific pot smokers, laid back go-with-the-flow hippies and a beautiful casualness that makes orgies look tame.
This is my number one spot for same day lays. I’ve had the most luck pulling chicks on the same day that I’ve met them here, than anywhere else during Daygame thus far. The atmosphere of the area checks off most points on the same day lay list. Casual, fun, light hearted, hippy and touristy. The perfect storm of quick, commitment less sex.
While both you and I are lighthearted, easy-going fellows most of the time, I’m sure you have your streaks of high-energy, go go go times.
Those moods where you feel hopped up on 10 coffees all at once.
Your heart is outpacing a heart-attack patient. Your power walk is leaving Usain Bolt in your dust. And not even an outback Aussie bogan farmer can understand you at the pace your talking at.
This is the time for you to hit up rush hour in the city.
Girls are in a hurry.
They may be on a lunch break.
They may be racing to public transport.
Hell, they could be rushing to catch the final days 70% off sale at Victoria’s Secret. (Lucky you…)
The beauty is your initial energy is going to match theirs. You can leverage this to calm them down, ground them and transition into a more flirtatious Daygame approach.
I would try and approach the hippy girls on a day where all I wanted to do was laps around the country a few times.
We were on different wavelengths.
It went poorly
I would be calmly and sloooooowly approaching girls who were seemingly in a huge rush from point A to point B.
Again, different wavelengths.
It would mostly go poorly.
You get the point.
See, Daygame is universal. The skills are transferable. But you can also plan out your approach so as to maximize all of the external factors around you during Daygame.
Examine the different environments you commonly Daygame at. Identify the atmosphere that is present. Work out what type of girls are frequenting those specific spots.
That way, on any given day you can look in the mirror and see how you are feeling.
From there you can pick exactly the right place to Daygame that will give you the greatest leverages for the session.
For now, I want you to listen to this chilled out approach of mine:
I’m feeling relaxed and easy going.
I’m off to Daygame in the park!
See you tomorrow,