(28th June, 2017 Email)
Daygame truly is a wondrous sport that separates the men from the boys
It takes big brass rocks dangling between your legs to become successful with Daygame
And every other guy is missing out
Because this shit is fun
As well as exhilarating
You cool readers will have noticed my slow transition over to an increasingly direct and unapologetic ‘no holds barred’ style of Daygame. A Daygame style that lends itself to complete spontaneity. Each Daygame approach is becoming more and more unique as I slowly remove any trace of ‘routines’ and ‘canned jokes’ that I’ve built up over the years.
With this transition comes testing.
I’m paying particular regards to the directness of my Daygame opener.
Less and less is “you looked cute, so I had to come over and say hi” satiating my thirst.
With good riddance as well.
If I’m being truly 110% true to myself, I don’t think the girls that I approach are cute.
I think they are DROP DEAD GORGEOUS.
Gone are the days of me ‘warming up’ with munted looking girls.
Quality attracts quality.
Confidence attracts confidence
If you’re stuck approaching girls you don’t truly find attractive, it’s because you don’t yet believe that YOU are truly attractive.
(P.S. there’s nothing more of an underwear-clenching turn off to women than a guy who is not being genuine – see yesterday’s email for more on this)
So nowadays, “you looked cute” doesn’t quite cut it.
I wasn’t being genuine again.
“Cute” worked before, when the girls I approached were just “cute”. Nothing more.
It just doesn’t fly anymore.
Yesterday, the first thing I said to one girl, Vanessa, a Chilean girl (Don’t worry, I accused her of lying… Vanessa is soooo not a Chilean name) was “You’re the most beautiful girl I’ve seen all day”.
We have established above that Daygame is unique.
When I backwards rationalize this seemingly unique opener, there is a hidden twist…
This super bold directness isn’t quite as ‘foreign’ and ‘shocking’ to the girl as I had hoped
Thinking about it, these are the kind of statements girls hear 2 times a week. In the weeee hours of Saturday and Sunday morning. When they’re all drunk at clubs. Where guys finally have alcohol confidence to speak their inner-most desires.
Girls have heard this super-direct opener before.
There is a saving grace though.
They haven’t heard it stone cold sober in the middle of a busy street during the daytime.
We have to let the super directness play its emotional part in the back of the girl’s brain.
She’s heard direct openers like that from drunk guys before. Thankfully, they weren’t able to follow it up with any kind of meaningful, grounded conversation.
This is our opportunity to show the girls how unique this truly is. Once we can do that, she starts to realize that this wasn’t just some drunk come-on, but an extremely direct, ballsy and attractive approach.
Especially if we can weave another genuine direct compliment or two into the following conversation.
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See you tomorrow,