(30th May, 2017 Email)
If Señor Zaccy had a dime every time his assumption about a girl was incorrect… well, he’d be a rich man.
It’s a common trap I used to fall into during basically all my interactions with women.
In my early days, it was difficult for me to physically escalate on a coffee date. We’d be sitting next to each other, she’d have her legs crossed and I’d assume she didn’t want me casually touching her.
It was only when I mentally yelled ‘fuck it’ and tried, that I discovered how open these “supposedly closed” girls were to my kino touching.
And of course, there was the end of many dates…
A time when I all too commonly thought to myself “she’s definitely not ready to come home with me. I need to take her out on another date before she’ll be comfortable”.
Yet, when I started to sack-up and offer them a reason to come back to my place… most girls generally accepted.
The beauty of Daygame is the endless *leads* you suddenly have access to.
I could not imagine how long your learning curve must be if tinder or club-game is your ONLY access to women.
Geez, how do those guys test what works?
Like, I’ve seen friends struggle for WEEKS to get a single date from tinder.
Good looking dudes as well.
And then, once they’re on the date? What? They have to burn the girl testing a new way to seduce her?
Man that must suck.
It’s majorly important as well.
As I’ve enlightened you up above, I had a BIG learning curve early on in my Daygame career.
I made HEAPS of mistakes.
But I had enough access to many pretty girls to TEST all these different techniques, principles and downright guesses… and still have a couple million other girls waiting for me to boldly Daygame them tomorrow.
If there’s one thing I’ve learned from both my live Daygame experience and my informal studies in negotiation, it’s that you can NEVER assume what the other person is thinking.
What YOU think they are thinking is rarely what THEY are thinking.
The problem with our brain is that it likes to *project*.
Meaning your real-world experiences tend to dictate how you perceive reality.
Here’s the thing though:
Everyone’s lives are different.
Therefore it makes logical sense that someone else’s life experiences are vastly different to your own.
Logic then dictates that they perceive their own reality in a different way than you do.
It is this gap in relatable reality that creates stumbling-blocks in most guys.
So you don’t even offer.
Yet she’s sitting next to you with underwear soaked from her wetness, mentally pleading for you to offer her an excuse to come home with you and have sex.
I’ve got evidence as well.
This chick was the bitchiest, angriest, grumpiest looking Latina I’d ever seen walking down the street. But did she act how I perceived her to be?
Find out for yourself:
See you tomorrow,