(07th June, 2017 Email)
You sadistic fuckers.
I knew yesterday’s email was going to be popular.
There’s plenty of horse poopey that needs shoveling to make that Daygame garden of yours grow.
AKA – of course there are failures along the way throughout your Daygame journey.
And ya’ll seemed to LOVE hearing about mine.
I can’t believe just how many messages you guys sent me after yesterday’s email.
Back by popular demand
Your bro Zac brings you part 2 of his epic Daygame failures that are guaranteed to shorten your learning curve.
That means more puss-puss for less Daygame ‘work’.
Pretty sweet dealio if you ask me.
Ok, read on good sir:
How the hell do you make conversation with a totally new chick that you’ve never seen before in your life?
Well hopefully I somewhat educated you on this topic yesterday. It comes down to those all-important assumption you make. Assumption stacks, we Daygamers call it. You keep on pointing out things about the girl until she bites and gives you some information to work with. Finally, you have a topic of conversation relevant to her, so she’ll feel comfortable contributing as well.
Now, that’s all well and good.
Don’t worry, you’re forgiven. If I haven’t Daygamed in a while, I get a few butterflies enter the ol’ stomach of mine as well.
It’s just that I have many more past reference points of success to ‘know’ to cast these butterflies away and pull the fuckers wings off. Rendering them ineffective!
When you’re nervous, you’re in your head. A big-ass mistake. If you’re focusing on *what to say next* then there is no possible way for you to be paying full attention to the girl. This is a problem. If you listen closely, you’ll find that even with short, simple responses, a girl is giving you MORE than enough information to transition onto, and create conversation fodder out of.
Sadly, you’re too caught up with nerves that you don’t hear these topics.
Subsequently, they pass you by like a fart in the wind
There goes another piece of conversation. Now you’ve put even more pressure on yourself to come up with another conversation topic, or another assumption stack, or another tease/spike.
You, me… we’re not superman.
Even the most interesting man in the world is going to run out of things to say if he’s the only one creating conversation.
Take a damn step back. Breathe. Relax a little bit. Focus on a girl’s mouth. Try and lip-read as she says her words. Yep, it’ll feel weird. But you’ll damn sure hear everything she says. Every word. Every tone. You will even pick up on her body language as she says it.
Once you are ‘hearing everything’ she says, even short sentences will give you a multitude of conversation topics for you to explore.
This time, YOUR body language.
One powerful trick with seducing and attracting women is ‘breaking rapport’. Did you know you can do it with your body language as well?
Is a powerful Daygame (or any-game) technique that is sooooooooooooo underutilised it’s not funny.
Here’s what I mean.
Your body language is ‘creating rapport’ when you’re standing front on, facing the girl. Everything’s directed towards her. Next time, take notice of which way your feet and the girls feet are pointing while you stand. I’m willing to bet that you find your feet facing her directly. And hers will do the same IF SHE’S INTERESTED. If she’ not, she will angle herself to the side, ready to step away from you when the opportunity presents itself.
When a girl says something stupid or unbelievable, I roll my eyes, do a twist and circle away from her. As I turn back, I call her out verbally on her bullshit.
This sudden twist has broken rapport with her.
I’ve subconsciously screamed “bullshit – explain your actions. Qualify yourself to me.”
And they always do.
What a beautiful way to ramp up a girl’s investment levels.
And I don’t need to *say* anything. I let my body do the talking.
There’s nothing more boring than standing there directly in front of the girl, giving her your full attention 100% of the time
I’ll bet you don’t even give your full attention to your best friend or your damn mother.
So why the hell would you grace such a pleasure on a girl you’ve known for 3 minutes and counting?
There you have it friends:
Remember to break rapport consistently.
Not just in verbal conversation.
But with your body language
(You heard this here FIRST btw! – I’ve not heard other goo-roo’s sprout this before.)
That’s how you know it’s coming from a tried and tested experience.
Give it a go yourself in your next Daygame session.
It’ll work wonders
Now check out my 7 other damn useful tips here:
See you tomorrow,