(19th March, 2017 Email)
No no, my grinchy friend.
I ain’t talking about the clear, bump and ache clear skin.
That’s just down to dumb luck.
Nope, I’m talking about that hardened ball-sack skin of yours.
This skin is your resolve.
The very same resolve that slowly hardens and desensitizes you and your (once) frail ego from the piercing sting of rejection and failure.
This very skin will slowly remove outcome dependence from your Daygame. (That’s a fancy-smancy way of saying you “don’t care about the end result anymore”). And it’s a healthy way to view Daygame and any real interaction with women from this point onwards.
Alas, how does one baby-faced, over-excited budding Daygamer develop, or *earn*, this rugged impenetrable ball-sack skin?
… Actually, scratch that…
Yeah, that’s the right answer
The answer you crave
However, that does open up a new can of worms…
What the hell is Zac talking about when he says “over exposure?”
Let’s break it down, shall we?
If exposing yourself to your fears creates comfort, then over exposure creates mastery.
Where once a young and inexperienced Daygamer feared running in front of a pretty lass and making a Daygame front stop, he now feels comfortable after doing it 100 times.
In complete mastery?
Far from it.
See, with 100 attempts, you’ve experienced exposure! But you’re far from OVER EXPOSING yourself to the situation. Yeppers, you’ve started the long path of desensitizing yourself to the once-feared new situation that did lie outside your comfort zone. But now it’s your opportunity to build on this momentum and create the exponential success that is destined to come your way as you over expose yourself to the very same instance over and over again.
Say you are a complete virgin, devoid of any female exposure.
Suddenly you get the DING of a tinder match. (Or whatever the hell sound you phone makes. I wouldn’t know, I’ve never used the damn thing)
To your surprise (and absolute joy) you’ve got not just 1, but 2 dates lined up.
Now here’s a test to consider:
Our virgin friend wishes to comfortably physically escalate on his second date, with the goal of bedding the fine lass. So what should he do on the first date?
The most immediate answer?
Over expose himself on the first date.
(No, not like *senile old homeless man flashing himself* kind of over expose. You sick fuckers)
But risking his wrinkled ball skin, in an attempt to harden it up as quickly as possible.
On his first tinder date, he should look to over-escalate as much as possible. This way he gets a feel of what it’s like to over escalate. He understands what the consequences are. How the girl reacts. And most of all, he has now exited his comfort zone, so he feels slightly more desensitized to the whole escalation thing now than he did 24 hours prior.
When it’s time for date number 2, he is more comfortable.
He has already taken his physical escalation to the extreme and is more likely to calibrate towards the middle, where the girl is happy and turned on by it.
Not only that, he’s adding to his exposure level with things he’s not comfortable with.
His ball sack skin is getting a little rougher. Sooner or later, these kind of situations won’t faze him at all.
See, Daygame is all about the skin you’re carrying around.
Whether you can show intent, both verbally and physically.
Whether you can lead. Take her to the coffee store you want to go to. Lead her to the park nearest your bedroom. Suggest going back to your place to watch a quick video.
You’ve also got to be the one to escalate. Taking her by the hair and making out with her once she’s in your bedroom. You’ve got to lead. She ain’t going to cover all these steps for you, no matter how much she may want it.
The only way to become comfortable and proficient at these basic steps of Daygame and seduction are to try and try and try… then try again
Here’s 7 other super-duper tips that will help you slaughter Daygame any time, any place:
See you tomorrow,